We’re excited to announce that we have just published our first app! MyDatingCoach, a free Conscious Dating app for singles is now live for Apple and Android devices. It’s free, with great stuff for singles such as audio and video programs, Conscious Dating tips and strategies, access to our comprehensive Conscious Dating Knowledge Bank, and… [Continue Reading]

By David Steele “We choose our joys and sorrows long before we experience them.” — Khalil Gibran Our life works and can be full of joy when we make effectivechoices. Our life can be full of sorrow if we make ineffective choices. Chooser vs. Victim As a child, choices were made for me and I… [Continue Reading]

by David Steele In July 2005, the National Marriage Project of Rutgers, the State University of New Jersey, released their annual “State of Our Unions” report for 2005. You will find some key findings from this report below. Here is what I would like you to know: The marriage rate continues to decline The cohabitation… [Continue Reading]

by David Steele The question of when a relationship is committed is a source of much confusion and debate. We live in a time when the marriage rate is going down, the co-habitation rate is going up, and the majority of first-born children are now born to unmarried parents. In this article I hope to… [Continue Reading]

By David Steele This month our Director of Singles Programs, Lynne Michelson asked our coaches: “A common problem that occurs for singles is the experience of a relationship ending but the feelings continuing for many months or longer with resulting sensations of emptiness and loss They know perhaps the relationship was not healthy, or that… [Continue Reading]

By David Steele As I had my morning coffee, the “Dear Abby” column caught my eye. A reader wrote in with a dating dilemma and ended her letter with that often-heard stereotype that “Women use sex to get love, and men use love to get sex.” This is a great summation of the “Sex Trap.”… [Continue Reading]

by David Steele Our reality and results are largely determined by our beliefs and attitudes. Attitudes are internal beliefs that create your experience of yourself, others, and life; the way you see things and your internal state of “being” that are largely self-fulfilling; they WILL be true because you believe them and allow them to… [Continue Reading]

By David Steele She’s so hot!” “He’s a hunk!” “Men/Women are only after one thing.” “Why can’t men/women see past my body/bank account?” Women commonly dislike being evaluated or pursued by men solely for their physical attractiveness, and men commonly dislike being evaluated or pursued by women for their job or money. When we don’t… [Continue Reading]

By David Steele The “Rule of Three” has many incarnations and applications, as a cursory Google search will reveal. In the area of relationships, you may have heard that the “third time is the charm,” and while that has certainly been true for me, I’m not recommending getting divorced twice to find your life partner…. [Continue Reading]